In every relationship, it takes two hands to clap.
In my opinion, both parties were in the wrong. The wife should, and never would, show the world what situation their marriage are in. Yes, I know, the husband cheated on her. But things can be handled in a more peaceful way. The video that was posted on Facebook, where she and her sister (I think) confronted her husband and lover at the foodcourt, was definitely not appropriate in the eyes of the public. Showing tantrum and flipping the tray with food on it was definitely a no-go.
As for the husband, there should not be any reason for him to cheat on his wife. I mean, you already decided to be his official wife in the first place. It’s his responsibility to make sure that his new family would move towards the right direction. Blaming external parties that pressured you to carry on with the marriage is also not right. You have the power to stop the marriage, your marriage, if you think that it was not going the right direction. Look at where you are now, pretty down south. If given a choice, I’m sure sure would rather call off the marriage than to divorce with guilt and shame.
Just my 2 cents. Maybe 3.
In my opinion, both parties were in the wrong. The wife should, and never would, show the world what situation their marriage are in. Yes, I know, the husband cheated on her. But things can be handled in a more peaceful way. The video that was posted on Facebook, where she and her sister (I think) confronted her husband and lover at the foodcourt, was definitely not appropriate in the eyes of the public. Showing tantrum and flipping the tray with food on it was definitely a no-go.
As for the husband, there should not be any reason for him to cheat on his wife. I mean, you already decided to be his official wife in the first place. It’s his responsibility to make sure that his new family would move towards the right direction. Blaming external parties that pressured you to carry on with the marriage is also not right. You have the power to stop the marriage, your marriage, if you think that it was not going the right direction. Look at where you are now, pretty down south. If given a choice, I’m sure sure would rather call off the marriage than to divorce with guilt and shame.
Just my 2 cents. Maybe 3.
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